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Therapy for
Sexual Trauma in NYC

Healing is possible. Learn to trust yourself again.

Therapy for Sexual Trauma in NYC

What happened to you may be in the past, but your body and relationships may still be responding to it.

You learned how to survive. Now you’re trying to figure out how to feel safe again.

Maybe you’ve gotten good at pushing things down, staying in control, or disconnecting from what you feel. You may question your reactions, ignore your body’s signals, or go along with things even when something doesn’t feel right.

These responses may have helped you survive what happened. Now, they may make it harder to trust yourself, set boundaries, feel comfortable with intimacy, or know what you want.

Sexual trauma can shape how you relate to your body, emotions, relationships, and yourself. Trauma-informed therapy can help you understand these patterns and reconnect with yourself in a way that feels safe and manageable.

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Whether you’ve experienced childhood sexual abuse, exploitation, sexual assault, or domestic violence, sexual trauma and its effects can look differently for each individual. You might notice it in the way you feel, think, or interact with others.

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You might benefit from therapy for sexual trauma if…

  • You have difficulty trusting your instincts

  • You feel disconnected from your body or emotions

  • You’re caught in patterns of guilt, shame, or self-doubt

  • You struggle to set or communicate sexual or relationship boundaries (it’s difficult to say “no”)

  • You experience relationship anxiety, avoidance, or difficulty trusting others

  • You feel disconnected from your sexuality, desire, or experience fear around intimacy

  • You’re tired of understanding what happened intellectually but still feeling affected by it

Working together, we’ll explore how your experiences may still be showing up in your life today while creating space for you to reconnect with your body, your emotions, and your own sense of what feels right.


Start Therapy for Sexual Trauma in NYC today!

What if you could go from…


Feeling disconnected from your body → To feeling more present and connected

Questioning your instincts → To trusting yourself more

Feeling guilty for setting boundaries → To knowing that your boundaries matter

Ignoring your needs → To recognizing and communicating what you want

Feeling anxious or guarded in relationships → To building relationships that feel safer and more authentic

Knowing you “should” be okay → To actually feeling more at ease in yourself


Let’s replace “Is this okay?” with:
“Does this feel okay to me?”


Sexual trauma therapy isn’t about forcing yourself to revisit painful experiences before you’re ready. We’ll start by creating a space where you can feel safe, supported, and in control of your own process.

We’ll spend time getting to know you, your experiences, and what you’re hoping to change. Depending on your needs, we’ll develop goals to guide our work together.

Each session, you’re invited to come as you are - there’s no scripts or expectations to have everything figure out. I’ll meet you where you are and we’ll go from there…

  • We might explore how your experiences have shaped the way you relate to your body, emotions, and relationships.

  • We can identify survival patterns that once helped protect you but may no longer be serving you.

  • We might practice noticing your body’s signals and distinguishing between fear, intuition, discomfort, and desire.

  • We can work on boundaries, communication, and trusting yourself to make choices that feel right for you.

  • We might use CBT and ACT strategies to work with anxiety, shame, self-critical thoughts, and avoidance.

What therapy for sexual trauma might look like…

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Meet Your NYC Sexual Trauma Therapist

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Julie Koven, Ph.D.

Hi! I’m Julie, a licensed psychologist specializing in helping adults heal from the lasting impact of sexual trauma. For the past 10 years, I have worked with adults navigating the effects of traumatic sexual and relational experiences, including difficulties with trust, boundaries, intimacy, and self-worth.

As a psychologist and professor, I’m passionate about not just getting you from Point A to Point B but also helping you to understand how your body and mind have responded to trauma and what options you have moving forward. I believe in empowering clients with knowledge so that you can exercise autonomy in and out of therapy.

You deserve to feel safe in your body, trust yourself, and live a life where you aren’t held back by the past. Let’s work together to get there.

Frequently Asked Questions

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    ENM, POLY, & MODERN RELATIONSHIPS

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No default scripts.
Not trauma-driven choices.
Something intentional.

Start your therapy journey today.


Contact information:

Email juliekovenphd@gmail.com
Call or text 929.489.1160

healing is possible. learn to trust yourself again.

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